So, things were going great with us. We were making plans for our future and enjoying the present. The past week in particular was just so great and intimate, until today. My boyfriend has been stressed lately because he isn’t making as much money as he was last year due to company changes. I had some extra cash, so I thought I’d be nice and just put it in his wallet and he could use it to treat himself. I grabbed his wallet and went to put the money in when I noticed two Photo Booth pictures. I pulled them out and the first one was this girl with her boobs out in the pictures. The second had that same girl sitting on his lap with her hands all over him, holding him. It immediately broke my heart seeing it. I went downstairs and said what the f are these. He said that’s just a stripper and that the pictures are old. I said how old and he said from December or March of this year (like, sir, that’s not old but okay). After some questions, he tells me that she is just friends with him and his homies and his other guy friends got pictures like that with her too because they thought it was funny. He said they go to strip clubs together and just “be boys”. I didn’t even know that he frequented strip clubs. By this point we are both crying and he’s yelling. We went upstairs because I wanted to take this picture of us with me that I had given him. He got so mad that he pushed me backwards and then put his hands around my neck up against the wall. He didn’t squeeze, but I was visibly scared. I told him not to touch me and threw his arm down, but he said he wouldn’t hurt me. We talk a little longer and I end up leaving. I told my sister the full story. She said that he didn’t hurt me so that part isn’t a “big deal” but that I had every right to be upset about the pictures. I’m just at a loss of what to do. I truly don’t ever think he’d hurt me, but I was genuinely scared. We were together so long and I don’t know if this should be what ends it all after everything was going so well for us. I’m normally not an insecure person, but he made me feel like I wasn’t enough today. Are the pictures as bad as my head is making them seem?