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Me (30F) and my boyfriend (40M) have an open relationship, but the way he objectifies women disgusts me. How do I proceed?
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We have been together for 8 years. As someone in an open relationship, I recognize that itā€™s impossible for one person to check all of the boxes for another. I also subscribe to the, ā€œif you love something, set it freeā€ mindset. My boyfriend is insatiable in bed and I just canā€™t keep up, which is fine and why we have an open relationship. Whatā€™s bothering me is how he talks about women, their bodies, their age, etc. it creeps me out how he sexualizes everything we do. Heā€™s truly the sweetest and most polite guy, so itā€™s kind of shocking his brain actually thinks this way. I tried bringing it up to him and now he thinks I donā€™t want to be in an open relationship anymore and Iā€™m that Iā€™m jealous. I donā€™t know what to do!

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