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My boyfriend [M41] throws "harmless" things at my cat and has tantrums when I [F20] go to the store alone. How can I get him to understand this is just cat behavior and I need to be alone at times?
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My boyfriend who I am carrying the child of often throws things he deems harmless at my car when the cat does things like knock over the trash can or engage in annoying car behaviors. Of course this is going to happen because he is a CAT and hasn't gotten punished properly (i.e spray bottle) when I told him I'd get one on our next pay check. Sometimes his dog acts up but he always just pushes her or raises his voice unlike with my cat and it breaks my heart because my cat loves him.

I don't often want to, but sometimes want to go to the store alone to get away as I am always around him since he is on disability for diabetes and I only work part-time for the time being. He always starts yelling at me and telling me it's shitty that he can't come with me. Sometimes I just want a break to be by myself when I'm around him 24/7. We always just lay in bed too because he is sick but when I go to the store he magically can get up and go (after I give him money for cigarettes he insists he "needs"). I am really tired of this behavior because he always accuses me of wanting to break up or cheating. Idk what to do, it's really stressful but I do love him...

Edit: Just told me he can't lay down without touching me

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