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Long story short, I was incapable of receiving her calls that day, and I told her we could text. She said she really had to talk to me on phone . I said Id really prefer we texted and spoke on the phone much later.
Suddenly she told me she'd been touched by her boss. Naturally I dropped everything and called her. She fabricated this entire story about how and where her boss touched her. But I started to suspect she was lying, which made me feel horrible because why didn't I believe my girlfriend if she says she was assaulted?
Still, the feeling won't go away, because the story didn't seem to make sense at parts, because she only thought to tell me after I told her we couldn't talk that night, because she seemed to have completely forgotten about it after work .
Anyway, I confronted her about it and she admitted it was a lie, AFTER trying to emotionally manipulate me like "you dont trust me", "do you think I'm the kind of person to lie about something like this?" blah blah. I put my foot down, and she said it'd been a lie, she just wanted to talk to me and knew that would get my attention.
I told her it's such a horrible thing to lie about. I mean, fine, you can joke about it maybe, but she was willing to go ahead with the lie, lashing out angrily at me when I asked her if she'd just said it to get me on the phone .
Anyway, now I feel shitty and frankly kind of wary because what if she tells someone I've done something to her in the future? She's also told me she was molested when she was young by some guy, but now I'm questioning that too.
I've had a conversation with her but I need extra advice. My best friend doesn't seem to think it's that big a deal but it's worrying me. We've been together about a year. Oh, and it's turned long distance for a while.
What do I do?
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