After 6 years me and my ex(25F) broke up because she wanted to “live her twenties”. Somewhere down the line we diverged from each other. I wanted to get a job as a midlevel medical professional and she was a nurse already. Her background has to deal with hyper hands off parents who seemingly don’t care about anything past “how much money do you make” and “are you fat” there kids were a status symbol at most. (Yeah there Asian) now I’m currently talking to a new girl and she does not have the same issues as the previous girl and we have the same priorities in life as well as principals and my issue is that there is a 5 year age gap between us. I wanted to know if the age gap is something I should be concerned about from a pure bases of “that’s a a huge age gap” or is it even that huge of an age gap?

TL;DR: is the age gap between me(26M) and this new girl(21F) that significant of an age gap? We have a lot aligned but I don’t want to be one of those couples who’s talked about like “that’s a big age gap”.