I’ve been dating this guy for a couple months and he seems to like me but he never asks me to hang out. I end up having to be the one that asks him every time and it’s kind of bumming me out. At first he was so sweet and constantly was talking to me, now it’s faded significantly. I only get short replies and it doesn’t even seem like he wants to talk. He never really compliments me either, rarely kisses me, never holds my hand but says he really has strong feelings for me. I know I’m an attractive woman so I don’t think it’s that but it’s getting to the point where he almost seems disinterested but won’t break up with me.

I’m thinking about breaking things off even though I thought I was falling in love, but someone not really acting interested is giving me sort of PTSD to other relationships. Is this something other people have experienced? It’s making me so sad, I really like him but I can’t figure out what’s going on.