Im 23, hes 26. He was arrested July 14 2022. Release date is October 2024. I need help.

We were together for a year before he unexpectedly went back. It was almost like it was my fault though. Thats what I feel, but he tells me no. I brought something up in the car, we got to arguing and I started inadvertently speeding on the freeway.

Cop pulled us over, searched the car on a bullshit basis of alcohol smell. It was a literal rental. Clean & I never even smoked in the car. Also, I dont drink, and he was with me all day that day. It was my first time even driving it that night. But anyways they found a piece, he was on parole and he immediately copped to it and they took him away.

Cops let us kiss once last time and I havent touched him since that night in July 2022. We had a great time when he was out. He was working, I was in school, and it was just great. He doesnt blame me for anything, and we’ve been able to spend this time on the phone talking through our futures and feelings for each other.

We’re in a same sex relationship and no one else knows about us so its so hard going through this by myself. Im hurting so bad. I decided to stay with him this whole time, leaving never even crossed my head. His release date is October 2024, and we’ve already made it all this time but it just feels so far away. I feel like Im emotionally on my last battery pack. Ive been going through a lot financially & emotionally, myself, and I need him by my side. I guess Im looking for anyone to just comment their experiences, any advice, or hell just tell me I can do this. I know I can do it , I want to , But I miss him so much . I feel like Im going to go crazy. And its making me pressure him to take the GED test.

He’s been studying since last year to pass the GED test and get 6 months off his sentence. I need advice on how to properly encourage him to believe in himself enough to give it his all.

Im a college graduate and I teach him best I can, but I dont know why he didnt pass his recent Pre-GED entry exam. Last time he was in school was sophomore year of high school. But hes trying.

I write him and we speak daily. I love this man and I know he can do it.