Basically my situationship (Chris) and I were kinda getting serious and they got reinvolved with a friend/fwbs. Were also poly. All this is long distance on all sides

lets call her ann Ann is a very insecure person and has a codependent friendship with Chris (her words) and due to misunderstanding to how my relationship was gonna work with Chris she felt i was pushing her away and it came across as she wasnr ok with Chris being in hierarchy with me.

I am also insecure and have an anxious attachment style…so I assumed she wanted to push me out and Ann assumed I wanted to push her out of Chris’s life. She told me I didn’t have a right to set up a hierarchical relationship with Chris. Basically it lead to me having a big issue with her and Chris stepping away from me. We almost did not continue having any form of communication at all. But Chris and I had a talk and everything was a misunderstanding. Ann and I kept assuming each other was being malicious and was pushing the other out.

But now I still feel resentful bc it made me vv depressed and bc it had a very real affect in my relationship and she did not give Chris space during that whole issue and now she does (after we broke up, after everything)

I still mistrust her and I still feel like she wanted me out. But apparently its not the case but I cant help but still feel jealous and upset about what happened and how she made me feel there wasnt room for me in Chris’s life. And even now, I worry about being pushed out. Idk how to forgive her and ik Chris still wants them in their life and it means theres occasionally interactions with this person.