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[19M] I really like a girl [23F] I cant be with. Do you think i should go through with it anyway?
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So it's a bit of a long story but I'll try to keep it somewhat short. I work in a bar where a new girl had started back in November time. Stunning and we hit it off as soon as we met but she mentioned she had a bf so I instantly thought that it was never gonna happen and she's way outta my league if im honest and she's 23 so 4 years older than me. She would always complain about her bf to me at work and would flirt with me the odd time so it confused me a little but i didn't think much of it. At the Christmas party we were both drunk, nothing happened but we could both feel what was going on and after i left to go home she was crying to her friend that she didnt want to be with her bf and that she wanted to be with me. I left to go home for Christmas the morning after this so i never got to see her before I left but we texted the next day and she asked me if i liked her and obviously i said yes but you have a bf and she said that shes gonna breakup with him. They were only together a few months anyway but its still a big deal. so over Christmas she broke up with him and we were texting over Christmas but i found it so hard cus she's a horrible texter, she would leave me on delivered for at least an hour so no conversations could be held and so naturally i didnt think she wanted to talk to me so i sorta stopped. When i got back i asked her to meet up and she had excuses. I saw her for the first time since before Christmas last saturday. She came in to take over my work cus I was finished. As soon as we saw each other everything came back, in person this girl is amazing. I am constantly in laughter and shes just great to be around. So we had a conversation about all of this and she brought up a very good point of I'm moving away in July so if we were to get together now I'd be a 5 hour drive away. I've done a long distance relationship before and hated it so i dont wanna do that again. So i took out of this conversation that we wouldn't be seeing each other much but then she carries on teasing me and flirting with me. I don't know what to do, should I keep going and see where it takes me or tell her we should just be friends for now?

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