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I think my (18M) ex GF (19F) breadcrumbs me while i'm in no-contact. How should i respond?
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We have broken up almost 2 weeks ago and i have been in no-contact since then. We don't follow each other on social media as well. We study at the same university and suddenly last night she texted me to ask something about our lectures. I assumed that she was just makine an excuse to talk to me or why would she text specificly to me about this situation. I wasn't cold to her during the conversation and was acting completely polite. I have helped her about the situation and at the last moment i have offered her to meet up and grab a Coffee if she is avalible. I don't know if it is right or wrong i just did it. She politely declined and thanked me for inviting her and that wasn't a problem either, in fact i was expecting that kind of response so i told her if she ever changes her mind she can contact me. Everything was great until this point but then she said she texted me just because of her problem and she doesn't want our conversations to be more frequent. I apologized to her about this misunderstanding but said that i don't prefer her contacting me or texting me about some regular stuff like i am one of her ordinary friends. She apologized and said she won't bother me. I thanked her for her kindness, we said good night to each other and that's it. So what do you think? Ä°s my reaction or behavior wrong or should i make a move?

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