and has yet to follow through on it. Context - 5 years ago, I found out my husband cheated on me before we were married. I had no idea he was cheating when I found out; my complete faith in our fairytale romance was shattered.

We went through therapy and agreed that he would do things daily and weekly to show me that I could trust him again. During that time, he started grad school, we bought a house, I changed jobs, we had a baby, etc. - TLDR many life changes popped up. The result was that he was never able to follow through and do the things he was supposed to do to rebuild my trust. I don't think he lasted more than 3 months with the weekly things, and I couldn't tell you about the daily things at this point. We've talked about how important those tasks are to me in rebuilding my trust.

My question - would you keep giving him chances at this point? I let him go so long on the excuse that he's busy and doesn't have time. Other things have popped up - lack of equity in household labor is paramount - that have made me question the whole relationship, so here we are. On one hand, I know we are legitimately busting our asses every day. On the other hand, I believe that if you want to do something, you will. What do y'all think?