To make this as short as possible.
I met this girl that I've been talking to for a short time. & we have so much in common, so much in common that we are both single & been single for different reasons. Me is b/c I haven't found a good girl that lights my fire, & her b/c she said she has always had friends & family to occupy her attention now she's uncomfortable with herself. Where I think she's perfect, well not perfect or anything. But she's not big by any means. Anyways she says she just wants to be friends but for the reasons I just mentioned.
How or what could I do to make her feel good about herself & get her to be my one? She knows I'm looking for a relationship as we have talked about this. I just don't want to loose her as a protental girlfriend or have someone else come into the picture as that has happened before but due to me not expressing myself. As I just said I've done with her.

So any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance.