I will try to make this short but could be written for pages and pages…

I have been with this girl almost 3 months, i know it doesn’t sound too much but at the same time we saw each other every day, she met my parents many times and I was feeling deeply in love with her (way more than any other girl i had in my life).

I believe she was really into me as well, as we were constantly giving each other a lot of attentions, compliments and positive vibes in general.

However, since the beginning I already kinda knew that 3 months before knowing me, her bf died in a car accident… I mean, she was a bit unfair to me saying in the first weeks of dating that wasn’t her bf but “her best friend” but yeah more or less i knew the situation.

I gave her the possibility to decide if she was ready or not for a relationship and she was the one asking me to be her bf. At the same time she was making some statements regarding her ex but not too many.

However, in the last days she became really crazy af, and still don’t understand this.

Basically she started talking a lot more about him or comparing me to him. I wouldn’t say that myself i am jealous of someone who is not her anymore but more like I constantly felt not enough if she was thinking about him when she was with me.

Some example: - she told me she dreamed about him while we were sleeping together - she told me she liked more sex with me and no man in this world will give her the same sensations - she told me her ex came inside her the day before dying as they wanted a child - she told me she would have liked to kill herself to reach out to him - she told me i am unsensitive because “i shouldn’t feel sad while i hear this stuff” - she told me she still have pics of his dick - she told me angrily that “she hopes the most important person of my life will die so i know what she feels”… i mean she regretted this immediately after saying it but hurted me a lot.

I had one long night crying while sleeping with her and in the end decided that this is too much for me to handle. I understand she may miss him but her phrases sound disrepectful for me, moreover, i am relocating in a new country in a one month so all of this makes me feel less ready for a distance relationship.

Honestly I made A LOT for her to try to make her feel better in general with her life (made gifts, suprises, picked up her from work a lot of times, dinners, etc…)

Do you think that if i really loved her i should have stayed? Or this kind of behaviours / phrases from her side are unacceptable?