I met my fwb in June. It’s been more than 4 months since we’ve been together. We do a lot of coupley things like grocery shopping, movies, staying in and over, walking, dinner/brunch/lunch, etc. I find this all to be so pointless. I want to date but he is on a worker’s visa and isn’t sure about his future and whether he wants to stay here. He’s also not that happy at his current job and plan to find a new one. This means that he may potentially move out of state.

He met my family today because it was my birthday and we all hung out together. He says he had fun, but I was just thinking how pointless this all is. I’m tearing up just thinking about him meeting my family and not meaning anything in the long run.

I’m so tired of meeting new guys, but I find this all to be so pointless in the end. I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m stuck between wanting to spend as much time with him as I can and wanting to find someone long term. What should I do?

TLDR; finding relationship with fwb pointless because it isn’t going anywhere and we’ve done coupley things like him meeting my family.