I (39m) just recently had my relationship end with a 41f. Immediately she reached out saying she was questioning the decision to end it. Then we talked about the problems and the way forward. There is some hold up about either ending it for good or getting to work fixing it. I want to fix it and she is clearly talking like she wants to. Is she waiting for me to say it’s back on? Or at least ask her if she wants to? She has had a long run of terrible relationships and I was married to a terrible woman for 15 years. We’re both scarred and put the guards up so to speak. I don’t know what to do. We were talking about getting married less than a month ago and ended up here.