My GF (30) and I (32) have been together for about 5 years and we have a baby together. There is nothing wrong with our sex life. She is very open minded as am I. Once in a while I will go through a span of bad sex making me think she needs more, however not often. Needless to say a baby hasn’t ruined our sex life.

Lately / most of my adult life my mind has wandered endlessly when it comes to sex. I’ve always wanted to explore having multiple partners at once. I’m not selfish either. It could be FMF, MFM, or even one of us being with someone else while the other watches. I’m not sure why, but the idea of watching her perform and seeing pleasure on her face turns me on.

We have talked about this many times and have even roll played this many times. When I bring it up to her she is either very receptive and excited, or wants absolutely nothing to do with it. I’m not sure how to bring up that this is something I really want to explore. I’m also battling the back and forth in my head of wanting to watch her get railed and the reality of it actually happening. Has anyone done this and how did it work for you? How do I bring it up while still making her understand that I care how she feels too? HELP!!!!!