Relationship length 1 year. So long story short My gf and I broke up few months ago cuz of red flags. She had the ex and she was business partner with him. It is the huge red flag but I try to give her some space to grow and promise to be superset with him after some point with this I also gave her to respect some boundaries. But each and at every point she kept on breaking the boundaries. I can mention some of them like going and having dinner with ex in the name of business. Not picking up my phone when shes with ex. Asking ex to drop her everywhere ( at that time I don’t have the car but I propose the Uber or Lyft idea ). Once she slept at ex house and the reasoning she gave is that she doesn’t have control over sleep. Fighting with me cuz of ex parents told my ex girlfriend something something which I even not aware of. This is funny , she seduces her male friends and told me that this is normal in their country ( I had no shame in saying that she was Turkish ) eg once she was tipsy and jumping and showing her bouncing boobs on vedio call.

And few weeks ago she texted and said that I want to get back with seriousness. She said she was not serious with me at that time.( I asked on multiple occasions about being serious or not but she always said that she serious). I was stupid enough to go with her and she repeat the mistakes again.

Finally we had fight and I just left her.

I am not here to ask help but I just want to share my story. My trust is broken and I don’t know how I can trust anyone else. I don’t understand if you are serious in relationship but you lie.

Atlast , I want to mention She had lot of traumas from her past bf and parents. She was on medication , she had anxiety issues , sleeping issues.