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Hello people, Quick context, I studied my bachelors abroad and started working abroad.
In June I decided to quit my job to pursue a Master's in London. And for that reason I decided to go back to my mom's house for the summer and stay in my home city.
I made a lil party with my old friends and one of them brought her sister (21F). She started hitting on me and I ended up inviting her to a date. We dated 3-4 times a week while I was there, I realised I loved her and told her. She told me thats she had been thinking the same thing for a couple of weeks and said it back.
We genuinely clicked perfectly and well...I had to come to London. We where never boyfriend and girlfriend but we where excluaive and certainly treated eachother as a couple. The day I left we both cried, etc.
Now, almoat a week in London, we still chat and even had some 5hour long conversations. The thing is, I genuinely like this girl but dont want to torture both of us with a long distance relationship. We still like eaxhother and dyring phone calls I can tell she still likes me a lot. I even thought for a while that I could just finish this year and then go for her. However she will still have another year left in college and I dont want to interrupt that. For those reasons The most likely outcome is that we stop talking at some point and thats sad, but I dont know what you guys think. I do genuinely love her, she is amazing. But our plans just dont fit.
On top of that I would like to move countries every 4 years or so and even though she likes the idea she qas honest and told me she is isnt sure she could do that.
Im heartbroken and at the same time I dont want to let go and I know she doesn't want to let go.
What can you tell me??
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