Everytime I confront her about her neglect for my physical needs she gets defensive and blames it on “oh I’m asexual I just don’t get those feelings” but we’ve been together for 3 years and for the first good bit of our relationship we would fuck like rabbits. If it’s not the asexual claim it’s “well I have a birth control stick in my arms that messes with my hormones” but she had the same stick in when we first got together and we’re regularly having intercourse. I know she’s used to bigger (dick) people than I am because she’s admitted that she’s had bigger, but that was after 3 years of being together and after her already telling me multiple times that she was satisfied with my size but yet she never even physically touches me outside of when she needs me for anything that has to do with her desires and it’s never a sexual physical touching it’s usually a half assed hug and her asking me for whatever it is she wants. I’m not allowed to even touch her butt or make advances at her without her getting genuinely upset with my as tho I’m some stranger trying to grope her but she used to love when I played her butt and all of that. Really at a loss here as it’s been playing with my head for over a year now and I can never get an answer out of her besides her just getting angry and walking off (also usually after I make really good points like how she had the birth control stick for forever when we WERE having sex and how if she was asexual than she wouldn’t have done it so much with me in the first place… am I tweaking or does this sound like I’m being used emotionally…?