Ive dated my boyfriend off and on for the past few years and I really want to have a life with him but he just doesn’t seem to care about me sometimes. You know when someone starts texting you differently and you can just tell they don’t want to talk to you or are annoyed with you, he does that almost every other day it seems, he always makes me feel like the problem and I just can’t do it anymore. Today he was doing that and I texted him to see if he would come on a dinner picnic with me, nothing that would take forever. When I asked he seemed happy and said he had plans with 4 of his friends to go swimming, the man doesn’t even know how to swim for context, now he’s ignoring me and has been ever since I asked. Am I just being crazy for getting fed up with this? He does it often and he’s with those friend’s multiple times everyday and always chooses them over me. Should I give up and move on??

Up to this point I feel like I only stay with him because of the chance that he’ll make me happy. He’s the only person I have, family doesn’t like me and I don’t have any friends besides him. He only seems to care when I want to leave and gets defensive if I ever try to. He gets all mad when I call him out on small things and completely flips out on me and ignore me. He makes me feel small and I think he only pays attention to me when I’m convenient. When I cry he ignore me or gets short with me. If I tell him I know he’s ignoring me he starts to dry text me. If I mention my feelings or if my depression gets bad he’ll dry text me till I give up and go cry alone.