Second post here. Honestly might post here more, who knows. On mobile, blah blah, all the good stuff.

For context: For most of our relationship I’ve spent all my time in his room. Either on my computer or phone, but just on his bed in his room. Like, all day. I didnt mind it cause I enjoy his company. During this time he’d be on discord with his friends playing games, usually for hours at a time. He’s very clingy and always wants me to be near, wants me at his house, overanalyzes my behavior and takes everything I do personally (different post probably). Anyway. I’ve recently started playing Horizon: Forbidden West. I’ve been dying to play it since it came out but I was never willing to shell out that money, and just wanted to wait till it got cheaper. PS store recently had a summer sale that knocked it down to 20 bucks! I was so excited and almost immediately got into it. I have my ps4 hooked up to his TV in the living room. He has a small apartment so if he opened his door, he would be able to see me fully. I’ve played it for maybe 3 days, couple hours at a time. He’s started telling me it makes him sad and he wants me to at least spend a little time with him. I got SO confused. I am in his room ALL THE TIME and he plays video games all fucking day. As soon as I do it in a different room, he’s upset with me? He said that we could just play a game together, but I’m really fucking into this game right now and at the moment he’s working on his resume, so he’s expecting me to sit in his room and wait for him to be ready to play games with him. I’m so confused and pissed. I feel like he always does this, gets sad when I do this I like because they don’t directly involve him, and then it becomes my issue that I have to solve, even though ITS NOT AN ISSUE I AM JUST A PERSON WITH HOBBIES. I feel like he’s being a hypocrite but I don’t know what to do or how to communicate how I feel to him without him playing the victim. I’m sorry for the long read, this is the first time I’m getting this out properly so I’m feeling emotions I didn’t know I would. Advice needed!

TL;DR: bf plays video games all day but gets upset when I do it because he’s not directly involved.