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I [19m] am losing feelings for my [18f] girlfriend
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Okay, so I have been dating this girl for 6 months, so not really that long. Her and I get along, and have a pretty good relationship, but I am just losing feelings for her. We don’t really share that many similarities, and she doesn’t think the same as I do. I am a very forward thinking person, I do very well in school, and set goals for myself, as I don’t want to be working a dead end job, and want to make something of my life. But she doesn’t do very well in school. She got held back, so at 18, she’s still a junior in high school, while I’m a sophomore in college, she fails out of classes, doesn’t care about school, and her living situation is really bad, she tells me she just wants to drop out of high school, and just finish it later on. Physically whise, I am a very active person, I go to the gym, I maintain my physical weight, and try to make sure I eat healthy. She is overweight, and while I will admit, she is working on herself, she doesn’t care about what she eats, and she drinks a lot of unhealthy stuff. The way I’m writing this, it makes it look like I’m trying to make myself sound better than her, of course I am not the best either, and I have issues too, but I just don’t see myself with her, we have different goals and we don’t have the same motivations. I mean, I got into this relationship because I really wanted to start dating, and we met at a mall, she is a very genuine and nice person, and she cares about me a lot. I don’t want to leave her because I feel really bad, but I just don’t know what to do. Should I leave her, or should I just stay in this relationship hoping things get better?

[tldr: I’ve been dating this girl for 6 months. We have different goals and think different. She is very kind, but I don’t see a future together. Should I stay with her]

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