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For context I went out with a girl a few days ago that I matched on hinge. On hinge we had great text conversation and she was giving lots to talk about rather then just one word replies most women normally do on those apps. So I asked her out for a drink and she was quite happy, we met up and spoke for 3ish hours and we seemed we had a lot in common. Not to mention she kept eye contact with me the whole date and we even broke the touch barrier as she jokingly touched my hand and such.
At the end it started raining so I walked her to the train station and hugged her goodbye although the hug itself was a bit rigid but we hugged at the start too which was fine. I messaged her asking if she got home alright and she replied saying she did. I then asked a follow up question if she was interested in another date as I mentioned a Jazz bar which she mentioned in the date she wanted to go to and she left that on seen the next day (today)...
I then followed up today with saying "I'll take that as a no?" which she hasn't seen yet but I am kind of baffled why she left my previous message on seen after what I thought was a good date.Normally if a girl isn't interested in seeing me again it's cool as typically our conversation isn't great, we don't have much in common or she leaves earlier it is a sign of lack of interest.
But with her I am just really confused and honestly I have had an awful week socially and this has only made it worse for me considering I had another date last week and got rejected too (that girl I just didn't have great conversation with).
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