So Context is, before we started dating I asked her if she's 100% sure her ex's and her fwb are out the picture and if she got them out her phone, she said yea they are out and that her fwb was a mistake because he hit it and blocked her, all seemed well and i trusted her, 3 months later she told me she had something to tell me but she couldn't say it until I told her to just tell me. She then told me that her friends with benefits was still on her her snap and that she didn't delete him (Aaron). Now we do take snaps and send them to eachothers friends and I did see his name on her snapchat but I never questioned it because I trusted and I know she can have guy friends as long as she respected the boundaries. But this caught me so off guard because I was under the impression that she deleted all of her past but I remembered she said HE BLOCKED HER. So I asked her why did she make a cover up story in the first place? I didn't need to know who it was? Or who she did it with when or where, I just needed to know if they were all gone and left in the past, why she only removed her ex's and not her fwb (Aaron who so happens to be her ex's brothers). I told her mom the situation while I was going to work so she can take care of her daughter because she has extreme anxiety. After worked her mom had told me they never really talked after she found out and that was 2mk the before me and her started dating and she just encouraged me to not break up with her daughter. Then my girlfriend calls me crying reading a letter that she wrote while I was at work. Then she told me that she felt so ashamed and she wanted to forget about her past and she never talked to him that's why she forgot he was in her snapchat. But I still don't understand why she deleted all of her ex's which was only 2 and I asked her to delete her fwb which was only 1 so that's three people total, how did she seem to forget if I asked her twice before we started dating if she got rid of them? Anyways she said she would spoil me and buy me dinner so she can see what's it like when I take her out to nice places and spoil her and put dents in my wallet to keep her happy while questioning someone's trust feels. Her mom told that she better not hold any more secrets from me or lie to me because men like me are hard to come by, which explains why she was convincing me to not break up with her daughter. But we both talked it out and agreed that she would see how it feels like to be in my shoes, and she understands that it's gonna take some time to bring back that trust. What do yall think about this situation?