So my gf and I are long distance I'm in canada and she is in the states. We have been together for about 9 months now and everything was going good until we got a rough patch a few months ago. I know she has been dealing with mental health issues and I have been supporting her in every way I can but lately she has been distant, not answering my texts and when she does they are usually short fraised and cold. Most of the time when I call her to try and talk to her she is always busy and it's been 25 days as on today that she has not answered my texts. how I could get her to talk to me about how shes been feeling especially since she is very shy and reserved and also has very low self esteem?