The first time we had sex we went the whole night, that was early February. We’ve slept in the same bed quite frequently but only had sex twice since.

He’s extremely fit & wakes up at 4am for gym, has very low body percentage and insane body muscles. Basically he looks like a “Chad”. I’m wondering if there’s steroid use that’s hindering his sex drive or if he’s just not attracted to me, even though he’s overly affectionate (which I really enjoy) and we can talk for hours at a time….

I don’t have the best body in the world, I’m a medium sized woman with big boobs and a little bit of chubby tummy so it might be that. I’m in a country where the average booty is like the Meg Thee Stallion booty and I have much less than that.

I know sexually I’m pretty good and well experienced, I gym a lot so I’m pretty fit in terms of getting on top, so I think it’s either one of the 2 (steroids or lack of attraction). I don’t know if it’s possible that he’s gay leaning but I doubt.

it’s pretty new so I'm not prepared to ask him.

Update: he was a Demi-sexual