Hello everyone I (22M) have been seeing someone (25F) for quite some time now. We’ve gone on 4 dates and they’ve all been so fun and enjoyable. On date 2 I told her what I was looking for and what I wanted out of this. She told me that she is also interested in seeing where this goes between us and wants to give it a shot as well. These dates have been so great and I would like for this to lead to a relationship.

Honestly I never had the best luck with women, I would always get ghosted, lied to, manipulated, hell my ex cheated on me as well. Every experience has always been horrible. But as cliche as it’s gonna sound this girl is different and I’ve honestly enjoyed her presence, she’s weird and funny, we have tons of similar interests. I’ve met her parents already as well and they seem to like me as well. I did find it a bit weird meeting her parents even though we aren’t a thing but my friends told me that it was probably been a test to see what they think of me but idk I’m still iffy about meeting them so soon.

We also agreed to not text 24/7 just because it’ll feel like a chore and we honestly do the same thing everyday with our lives which is just work. And honestly she sucks at texting too so I’m fine with our agreement.

But aside from all that I think I’ve developed feelings but I’m not sure what it is. I think I could be sprung, lately she’s been on My mind a lot more than usual and the few times we text I get excited about it. It’s been a week since we last seen each other and this upcoming Saturday we are seeing each other again and I’m looking forward to that.

Is this what being sprung feels like? I’m not sure to be honest, like I said my luck with girls have always been bad I’m not sure what I’ve felt in the past. But I’m hoping that what I’m feeling is genuine, I’m just nervous that what I’m feeling maybe too early but I don’t know.

I just want things to go right for once with someone. I don’t want this taking a turn, any advice is appreciated.