I(21)F and my boyfriend (20)M have been together for a little over a year. I just had our daughter back in December and we gave her up for adoption.

For some context: I was supporting us when he got kicked out of his parents 3 months into our relationship. I didn't know I was pregnant at the time but started having health issues to the point I couldn't work and we lost our apartment so we moved across the country to take care of my grandmother and give us a place to live. She lives near my mother (parents are divorced) who was very abusive as well as her husband.

The present: I have began to drink at least 1 twisted tea a day due to stress. I have been dealing with my moms manipulative antics, my grandmother's health issues and bipolar disorder, dealing with giving up my baby and my own health issues, and our financial issues. My dad is sick on and off and my mom may have breast cancer. I feel like my drinking is taking its toll on my relationship due to my lashing out on my boyfriend about how he treats me, and my family despite me having everything on my shoulders so he doesn't have to stress. I wanna quit drinking but I need him to pick up some of the slack so I can go to therapy and get myself back on track.

Does anyone have some advice on how to approach this or if there is anything I should do to make all this less stressful so it isn't put on him?

Edit: I do handle all my family and emotional matters by myself. My boyfriend hates my grandmother and downplays my families health concerns and how I feel after giving up our baby for adoption. ( I am dealing with PPD)