My fiancé doesn’t use Reddit anymore and I decided to take over his account to reach out for some advice. Prior to me and him getting together, he knew I identified as bisexual. We discussed involving another woman in bed with us, as we have a very open and adventurous sex life. I also expressed how open my love for woman is. He’s very supportive and only ever wants me to be happy, so he agreed for us to try it out. I had met someone, who is now a good girlfriend of mine, and we had started sleeping together. We initially thought to ease into it, to have him just watch videos of us together. She caught feelings and things just went south and we had to end it as it wasn’t what was best for us. When we did this, lines were blurred and we didn’t set any boundaries. He fears that I may leave him for someone else, but wants to experience it and wants me to be able to live my sexual desires and needs. I know this comes down to insecurities and issues that we will figure out but in the mean time I was hoping to get some advice on adding another partner in bed. I now identify as pansexual and discussed maybe involving another man, or someone who identifies as transgender female. I have questions like how do I search for someone who would be interested in this? He is open to the idea but we want to be able to do this “right”, as we don’t want to go about it the wrong way again and feel as if we are cheating on one another. Any advice would be great and please be kind :)