My boyfriend used to do r*pe roleplay with his ex girlfriend of 4 years and he said it actually scared him and ultimately it led them to not have sex for a few months with her.

When he told me this he seemed very put off of the idea of rpe roleplay. But just recently i’ve seen that he had been looking up hentai rpe subreddits on reddit and i was so shocked.

I don’t know what this means. Obviously this was his first (ex)girlfriend and probably the first and only actual sexual encounter he’s had so his brain might be subconsciously attracted to it now.

The fact that he lied about not liking it anymore doesn’t sit right with me. Obviously it’s not a thing that most people admit. i’m just confused.

EDIT: i just don’t know how to bring it up with him bc when he told me, i sympathised with him and told him “ it’s a bit wacky”. but i actually don’t mind r*pe roleplay