If you know your post contains NSFW or suggestive language (you know when it does), then please tag it as such. This rule is a courtesy rule, because although the subreddit is 18+, we are not an explicit subreddit (like r/gonewild, etc). You have the option once your post is submitted to tag as NSFW, if you know it contains NSFW material (pictures or text) and can't tag, PM the modstaff and we can tag for you. Anything sexually suggestive falls in this category.

Exchanges for money, goods, or services, are strictly prohibited. This includes. and is not limited to, any of the "sugar" lifestyle ads, offers for free trips, lessons, tutoring, webpage design, gaming, cam performances, etc. If you are doing something in exchange for something else, it will most likely fall in this rule. Contact the modstaff for clarification or questions.

Exchanges for money, goods, or services, are strictly prohibited. This includes, and is not limited to, any of the "sugar" lifestyle ads, massages, OF, drugs, cam performances, etc. If you are doing something in exchange for something else, it will most likely fall in this rule. Also note that if your activity feed contains items of this nature, you'll need to use a different account to post on r/r4rNYC to avoid any potential conflicts of interest or confusion about the nature of your posting

No SPAM is allowed. SPAM includes advertising of any kind other than a personal ad. You are allowed to post to the subreddit once, and only once, per week. This includes deleted and resubmitted posts for any reason other than automod removal upon initial posting (not edits). This is to prevent users from trying to game the algorithm Reddit uses to stick on the front page of the subreddit. First frequency offense will earn a minimum 24-hour ban, additional offenses will earn longer bans.

Accounts must have sufficient karma and be sufficiently old to participate. (The specific age and karma requirements change from time to time in response to scammer campaigns. Do NOT modmail to ask what the current requirements are.) Post titles must include the author's true, exact age at the time of posting.

No Snapchat, phone numbers, email addresses, or other platforms may be shared in public. No surveys, forms, or other information-harvesting activities. We recommend against sharing this information in public, as it will be much more difficult to connect scammers/catfish/etc. to their Reddit accounts when communicating via non-Reddit platforms. Scammers frequently try to move off platform to Snapchat as soon as possible on NYr4r