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Melbourne, Australia

r/r4rMelbourne

29,223 subscribers
Melbourne, VIC's foremost R4R (redditor for redditor) platform, the reddit community for meeting local Melbournians and Victorians for almost anything.

Moderators

Updated Nov 4, 2024
u/Miss-Omnibus Active
Added 6 years ago
u/Carpe_Natem_Sis Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/Nofans, r/GoneMild, r/gymgirls, r/PLASTT, r/AussieGirls, and 16 more...
u/LastWolf-of-RedShore Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/Melbourneswingers, r/AussieGirls, r/Aussiemilfs, r/AussieCouples, r/AussieFellatioQueens
u/ModeratelyHelpfulBot Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/GFDpersonals, r/SoCalR4R, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, and 195 more...
u/SafestBot Active
Added 2 years ago
Also moderates: r/darkjokes, r/gwpublic, r/tits, r/ass, r/AsianAmericanPorn, and 153 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Account Requirements

Account age of >5 days, plus a small amount of account karma is required for all posting and commenting activities.

We support a range or user flair covering general Melbourne/Victorian regions. Feel free to choose your own user flair or request one from mod team.

Due to the nature of content shared and discussed here, all NSFW post and comment participants must be >18yrs of age. Underage users will be banned if found participating on NSFW posts.

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Title Requirements

  • All titles formatted as close as possible to:

    [] -

  • Choose most appropriate gender tags when posting (see full list on wiki)
  • Include your age, or age range
  • This is a SFW community, so ensure you keep all sexually suggestive language or kink terms only in the post body

    Rulebreaking titles with NSFW language will incur a temporary or permanent ban.
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Post Requirements

  • Post body with >200 characters with clear 'About Me', 'What I'm Looking For' and 'What I Offer' sections outlined. Low effort posts are removed.

    About Me: Describe yourself - Personality? Interests? Hobbies?

    What I'm Looking For: The what/when/where/how.

    What I offer: Why should someone reply to you specifically? What are the benefits to the other person?

  • You must include clear physical attributes if requesting in-person meeting.
  • Choose most appropriate post flair for your request.
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Privacy and Safety

For safety and privacy reasons we do not allow the sharing or personal or identifying information, including but not limited to:

  • Real names or nicknames
  • Phone/mobile numbers
  • Addresses or places of employment
  • Email addresses or social media usernames (Kik, Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, Discord, Instagram or external app profiles).

    Further, we ask you to refrain from the following behaviour:

  • Posting images (or links to images of yourself) publicly in your posts or comments.
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Fraudulent Posting & User Consent

Only post as your authentic self - impersonation or posting on the behalf of others is not permitted.

If posting on-behalf/with partners, ensure you have their informed consent before sharing/requesting any contact here. This includes 'wife pic trading', organising threesomes etc.

Fraudulent posting, bait and switch requests or any other situations regarding catfishing with your actual intentions will incur a ban (e.g. posting for friends and then sending someone dick pics instead privately).

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Exchange of Money, Goods, Services

Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited.

Advertising, self promotional acts or requesting any services that commonly include an exchange of money is prohibited. Any free service offers, professional services, trading or bartering services are not permitted.

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Spam and Spamming

Spam is not be tolerated and may result in a ban.

Spam may be considered any of the following:

  • Posting more frequently than once per 24hr
  • Posting same/similar requests more than once a week
  • Posts consisting of 'DM me/message me/Just ask me'
  • Posting veiled attempts for profile followers/ external app subscribers
  • Promoting other social media groups, subreddits or chat groups

    All posts are removed and locked after 90 days. Please remove your previous post if reposting same request.
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No Drongo Policy

This is a friendly, welcoming space for users to connect with each other, all users should be treated with respect and kindness.

Do not engage the trolls; please use the report function for rulebreaking activities.

Rude/degrading/violent/bullying behaviour found in posts, comments or modmail will be removed and may incur a ban.

Kink/sexual acts checklists will be removed, and you may be banned.

We use u/Safestbot to remove users frequenting violent, degrading or illegal content subreddits.

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