Updating this post here. Hello there! I am 32 years old, and in a poly relationship. I currently have 1 partner (my boyfriend of 5 months) and I am open to new potential connections! I am bisexual, open to a girlfriend or boyfriend for myself. I do prefer local connections, or connections within a reasonable drive (2-3 hours ish?) I live in the Dayton Ohio area
Some things about me:
- I am demisexual - this is why casual sexual relationships don't work for me. I need deep emotional connection and care in my relationships, especially if they are going to be sexual in nature.
- I am a professional tattoo artist (8 years) and tattoo shop owner (4 years). My job makes it pretty easy to find time to travel, and I have someone to manage my shop so I can enjoy more free time.
- I am a plus size girly and am on a overall health journey. Working on going to the gym, eating well, and am dedicated to self improvement and growth in all areas. I will provide pictures. When I say plus size I mean like, Tess Holiday plus size, not Beyonce plus size. If you aren't interested in fat girls and the things that come with dating them that's totally valid. Just don't hop in my dms and save us both the time. <3 I will provide SFW pics for potential dates.
- I have Autism/Adhd, though I consider myself fairly low support needs on the spectrum. I work, own a business, and am very self sufficient.
- I have a lot of special interests and hobbies, including; painting, crochet, pottery, drawing, creative writing, writing poetry, reading fantasy novels, mycology, foraging, baking, cooking, wildcrafting, singing (not well lol), witchcraft, canning/preserving, homebrewing, travel, kayaking and I'm sure more will come to me.
- I do not have any children though I love kids and wanted some of my own for many years. I am open to dating partners with children, but do not plan to birth any children myself.
Things I find attractive/ want in a partner: emotional intelligence and self awareness, willingness to be present and communicative, emotionally available, reliable and dependable, goal oriented, dedicated to growth, considerate and thoughtful, likes to plan dates, wants a robust and passionate sex life, likes to flirt and banter, shared values and interests, is therapy friendly (as in you have gone to therapy and or are open to therapy as a concept) intellectual, knows what they want in life and in a partner, understands that vulnerability from both sides is necessary to build lasting romantic connections.
*I am a hopeless romantic and I really crave that energy in a partner. Lets write love letters and receive them in kind, dance in the kitchen together while we make dinner on date nights, go star gazing in the summer and do cute spooky couple photo sessions in the fall. I want someone who appreciates the effort I put into my connections, and who will reciprocate that energy and effort.
Think that about sums it up, if you want to know more please by all means shoot me a message! I'll send pics in dm so you have an idea what I look like. Quick description would be 5'5", plus size/bbw, pale, tattooed, naturally a red head but hair is currently collar bone length and green, it's often a random fantasy color, and I have blue/grey eyes.
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