Hi! I'm a F 31 currently living in Illinois. Looking for f or m. Both works too. I am pansexual so gender does not matter. I do have a preference for femme presenting individuals.

I have one long distance secondary partner currently and am looking for a more primary connection. I'm not picky whether it is in person or long distance.

I'm open to age gaps but would like to set a boundary at no one younger than 25. An age gap older I don't really have a limit as long as we have things in common.

I'm 5'8" with an average build but a small frame. I present as androgynous but am quite feminine. I works nights so I'm more available in the evening and through the night. I mostly communicate on Snapchat or discord to start out. I am okay with phone calls after we get to know each other a bit as I am very shy and anxious when it comes to voice chat but become much more relaxed when I am more comfortable with someone. I would very much like to have phone calls because I love voices.

I am a big gamer. I'd like to game everyday but don't always have the time. I play a wide variety of games such as Assassins Creed, Sims, I just started palworld which I am really enjoying, Factorio, animal crossing, mobile games. I have both Xbox and playstation as well as a switch.

In terms of media I am a big RuPaul's drag race fan. I watch it every Friday right now. It would be fun to get able to watch with someone. If you're not into that I also enjoy horror a lot. I would love to have movie nights or binge a show together. I like most genres but especially horror, thriller, comedy, and documentaries.

I listen to a lot of podcasts. Some examples are the landwhale murders, obscura, the no sleep podcast, midnight burger, unwell, and psychopedia.

I also have a dog and so does my roommate. I spend a lot of time with my dog training and building a lasting bond. She is a handful but I can't imagine my life without her. Of course you will get lots of videos and pictures of her but I will warn you she's camera shy she runs to hide every time I point the camera at her.

When it comes to communication I highly value open and healthy communication. I would like that to be a shared value. I am typically very quick to respond to messages and phone calls as well. I typically communicate when I am busy and cannot be available to chat.

I like to have a lot of contact. I would not say that I'm clingy. I am an avid texter who will make myself very available for someone who's company I enjoy. I will not blow up your phone (unless you want me to) I will answer the phone before it rings if I'm aware the phone call is coming.

In terms romance I will admit I am not very outwardly romantic but appreciate romance when it is given. My love language in terms of is quality time and acts of service but I check all boxes at lower levels.

I'm very open to individuals who are neurospicy. I am also neurospicy and very understanding of the challenges that come along with that experience.

If you're into kink that's cool so am I. I'm not really open to sharing about kink in this post but am opening to discussing in DMS.

I'm interested in building a friendship first and if there is chemisty building and discussing from there. If you've gotten to the end of this please send me a dm with a bit about yourself.