I don't often post on the Polyamorous section but thought I would create a post to see if someone connects to what I am posting.

I would really like to have a deep, meaningful, loving, caring, affectionate, nuturing relationship with a Female. I don't mind if you are already in a relationship or have an exisiting partner.

I find that on Reddit and in my experience a lot of Polyamourous people are based in the USA compared to other parts of the world. So I am opening up the location of where you are based. As I know I am not likely to meet anyone from the UK / England but have more chance connecting with someone from the USA. Which is coll with me and I quite like this.

I have previously been in wonderful LDR poly relationships with females in the past that were based in the USA. I only actually got to spend in real life time with one of those females. Which was really nice. Before the whole Covid stuff happened and prevented travel.

I do find that I really like LDR as they allow me to do life alone which I quite like but then I also like that there is regular messages and face time happening, when covienent for both. I am not clingy and really do like my alone time and time for myself. I guess having been single for a very long time as made me very much a lone wolf and extremely self suffiencent and independent.

On the other side I am willing and able to invest time and effort into a relationship and in a person. Even though I am such a lone wolf. So please don't think you will be neglected or abandoned. I am extremely attentive and loyal and commited to any and all relationships that I am in. I like to really support and be there for the partner and be their rock and the person you can talk to about anything without judgment and just cry if you need to.

The following would describe my love languages: - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Touch

Here are my physical details: - I am 42, 5ft 11inches, average build, hairy, with a hairy chest, oval face, dark hair, brown eyes, tanned olive skin, salt and pepper beard (which sometimes goes down to short stubble and then regrows back to a salt a pepper beard again).

Here are my internal details: - I am pansexual demisexual polyamorous (enm), quiet, secure, peaceful, calm, kind, caring, loving, soft, gentle, authentic, genuine, lonewolf, spiritual, straightforward, no-nonsense, honest, truthful, direct, non-materialistic, minimalist, self-aware, free-spirit. bit of a hippy, logical, rationale, critical thinker, non-judgmental.

I aim to live a healthy life and do so with a lot of walking and eating a mixutre of a Vegan and Vegetarian diet. I also don't consume any drugs nor do I drink alcohol. I would also like to give up sugar and processed foods in the near future. With the focus on health and well-being. I take and have regular massages to help keep my body free of knots and tigtness. I look after my mind with therapy to help with peak stress and life issues. Currently I am not in therapy.

As for other aspects of my life: - I don't watch TV and have not watched TV for over 15 years. I don't consume content through Youtube mostly. There is so much different content on Youtube that this generally really is great for me to watch things and pass time. I do live with parents also and this was not meant to be as long as it has but the aim is to move out. I have never been married and don't want to be married. I also don't have any kids and I also don't want kids. I also tend to lock myself away from people so that I can re-charge and gain peace in my life. So hugely love and need alone time and solitude and complete peace and quiet.

As for hobbies and Interests: - I like doing things alone mostly but may allow someone to enter my life where I share my hobbies and interests with but that is not neccessary. I really like walking and hiking and being in nature and mostly remote nature and secluded nature. I have an interest in the Paranormal World. I like being productive and achiving things. I also like to eat out at Vegan and Vegetarian focused places. I do like to cook as well. I am thinking of taking up drawing classes, so that I can learn to draw things from my mind accurately. I also have a love of spreadsheets and the use of computer software and apps that make my lifer easier so that I can organise my life. I also do have an interest in exploring kink and bdsm.

This is a very long post I know. I believe it is important for you to know about me and what I seek. So that you can decide if I match you at a basic level.

Feel free to reach out with a chat request if anything that I have written appeals to you.