I am looking for a person of any gender and age to invest time in me and I in them. To organically work towards having a loving relationship.

I am not going to rush things or force things. I am fond of having things naturally flow. If we flow great and if we don't that is also cool. Mental and Emotional Connection and flow is very important to me, these are some of what makes a relationship worthy for longevity.

I don't want any interactions to remain only online. Online seems to really work for me, when I start to chat and get to know a person because I am very cerebral naturally but also very much in touch with my feelings.

I recently put an end to a relationship where the other person, was unable to put time in. This has led me to make a post to outline clearly and accurately what I want.

I am wanting a nice, kind, caring, affectionate, loving, nuturing relatonship. That is the black and white of what I seek in the relationship.

In my experience of Polyamory. In a lot of cases, most people that identify as Polyamory are based in the USA. So, I would be open to interacting with people from the USA even though I am based in the UK.

My last Poly Relationships have all been from people in the USA and they were wonderful and I really have a soft spot of people from the USA. Im also very good at doing Long Distance Relationships. As my previous relationships have been long distance.

INFORMATION ABOUT ME: -

I am 42, 5ft 11inches, average build, oval face, dark hair, brown eyes, tanned olive skin, salt and pepper beard (sometimes just short stubble).

I am pansexual demisexual polyamorous (enm) vegan vegetarian, quiet, secure, peaceful, calm, kind, caring, loving, soft, gentle, authentic, genuine, lonewolf, spiritual, straightforward, no-nonsense, honest, truthful, direct, non-materialistic, minimalist.

I have never been married and don't need marriage to be part of a relationship. I don't have kids and don't wish to have them. I don't mind if you have them.

I am also BDSM and Kink Friendly.

I live in South of England, UK.

Feel free to reach out if anything I have written appeals or connects to you.