I am finding Reddit to be a good resource in finding and connection with other humans with similar interests to myself. So I thought I would use this great resource to put a post and advert out for myself. To see if my post and advert connects with someone out there.

I am very honestly looking for a deep and meaningful, loving, caring, polyamorous, relationship with any gender.

My being is able to love and is capable of loving a person and I want to connect mentally and emotionally with a person that is also capable of loving back.

Ideally I would prefer that you are from or live or have a base in England UK. If you live in another part of the world, I could be open to something long distant with the potential for a meeting to happen. If you do live outside of England UK then please be OK with putting effort into meeting with me in the future and I will do the same.

I have been poly for a few years and love it so much. It allows me to feel free and unrestricted. It allows me to make meaningful, loving, caring, connections. Though I am extremely picky when I am making connections. I expect a level of decency from you and I will provide the same. I will provide you with honesty and expect the same from you. I will provide you with truth and I expect the same from you.

I tend to get on with people that are also kind and caring, truthful, honest and loving. So please posses these qualities are your core.

I have written quite a few posts and nothing has come from the Poly posts that I have made. So for me it is about getting maximum or frequent exposure and that is what I am doing with this post.

I am currently reconnecting with a previous lover who is based in the West Coast of USA. So there is a chance that her and I may become involved with one another in the future. Other than this I am not in any other relationship.

I love my alone time. I am a loner by choice. A lone wolf and I love it. I'm very happy to walk my own path alone. This does not mean that I am not open to having someone serious in my life. I am indeed happy to have someone serious in my life. Where we connect firstly mentally then emotionally and then physically and sexually. It pretty much is in that order that I want the connection to start off and develop.

As for my physical self. I am 42, 5ft 11inches, average build, hairy-ish, oval face, brown eyes, tanned olive skin, a small black and white beard or sometimes just stubble. I have Indian roots, (not American Indian but Indian from India) with both parents being Indian but my body being birthed in England UK.

As for my inner self - I am pansexual, demisexual, very kind, caring, loving, soft, gentle, quiet, quietly confident, secure, no-nonsense, straight forward, honest, truthful, giving, non-judgmental, understanding, solitary, spiritual, person.

I am very health focused and live by a vegan and vegetarian lifestyle. I don't consume any sorts of drugs either. So place my temple on a high pedistal.

I am also very open and adventurous. I love nature and hiking and being in remote nature. I am also into BDSM, kink and fetishes. So open to chat about those things if you like but if this sort of thing does not appeal to you that is OK.

I have never married and don't wish to be married. I have never had children and don't want children. I don't mind if you are married or unmarried and I don't mind if you have children or don't have children.

Thank you for reading. Reach out with a chat if anything I have written appeals.