Thanks to those who were actually helpful and offered true insight.

I've been married for 5 years and have been a serial monogamous (dating wise) cis-male my whole life. I've never really had to go out and meet women as it was either a high school sweetheart or a college fling turned marriage.

Where's a place I can go to meet women? And online dating is worse than applying for a job online......

Edit: I realize why people delete their questions... The toxicity is real on Reddit. I pose a question and offer a sliver of my life and then I'm the bad guy. The scope of my life, my wife's life, and our relationship fits much more in super thicc autobiography than this 30 second read.

I'll keep this up if the mods want to and offer myself as tribute so the next guy with the same question is spared this cesspool.