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New to Polyamory and Feel lost
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TLDR at bottom: So my wife (f27) and I (m29) have started our Polyamorous journey recently and have started dating individually for maybe three months. In that time I've seen two women that I've really liked. One turned out bad because of numerous issues I won't recount. And the one I'm "casually seeing" (we will call her C) is incredible. C and I vibe so well together and are super close. We've been seeing each other for about a month now. C and I both have two kids and our kids get along. My wife (B) loves C and is so happy I found someone I like. But lately C has stressed that she was in a polyamorous marriage before and it ended bad and she was hurt. Now I don't have much experience but I know what love is... and what she has wasn't it. C has also stressed that she is a jealous person and would only ever want to be the only one while also saying she can see herself dating me seriously while I am committed to both B and C. When we hangout she let's her guard down completely when we are alone. When we are with my wife she partially let's her guard down. Now before it gets asked... we've had sex. It was great and we both have no regrets (or so she says). I just want to know what I could be doing wrong. I really like her and hope she realizes what we could be. If there is any advice I'd appreciate it. TLDR My potential partner may be sending mixed signals. Help?

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