Was in a closed triad with my wife and her best friend for over 10 years. Recently GF and I broke up over a lot of shit. Still with my wife, and so is my ex. All living together with ex's two kids from a previous marriage. My relationship with my wife is suffering greatly as I am expected to just continue in the household like nothing is different and if I mention any problems with it, I'm just causing "drama". I love my wife, and want to be with her, but her and my ex spend almost all their time together. I've moved into a seperate bedroom and asked for a division of time, both sleeping with and alone time with my wife, but as of yet, nothing has been arranged. I'm in counseling/therapy regarding it but everyone's attitude about all this is "suck it up, buttercup". I'm losing my mind and starting to contemplate the "D" word with my wife, which I absolutely don't want but don't see any other path.