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My partner told me about a woman that comes in to his work that he finds attractive, gets a little flirty with and would like to exchange numbers with and I love that! It gave me all the happy feels for the first time. But when he mentions a date or potential date with someone he met online I get all anxious and maybe not jealous but like an "off" feeling, I dont know how to explain it any better. I dont understand why though, that's how I met him and I'm currently on them (with what seems like little success). So if anyone else gets like this and can help me make sense of it I would be forever grateful, I absolutely hate feeling like this, especially after my first real feelings of compersion like last week :(
My theory:
People you meet in flirty situations like that are rarely good matches. So his excitement is cute but not threatening because the probability of her being a good match is so low.
Since you met him through online dating apps, then other people that he meets through online dating apps feel like real potential matches ... And that brings on the fear of the unknown.
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