I'm a pansexual, adventurous, outgoing lady. My husband is a shy cishet man. We're very happily poly, but it seems as if I have many great relationship options and he has a lot more trouble meeting women. We play with couples a lot, but I am not sure how to solve the problem of wanting to date people separately without leaving him home alone a lot. He's recently expressed frustration with the situation. I'm only seeing one other person (usually seeing them a few hours every other week), but he is not dating anyone else unless it's when we hang out with other couples. How do poly couples in similar situations find women willing to date or play with poly married men?