So I just had a really promising opportunity go sour because we are both busy people and only get one night a week. First two weeks and dates go well. But then we got a cold from date#2 and had to skip a date. We had a two week gap and planned the "meet the metas" night then from there on it would be more fun and less getting to know type stuff.

She had some weird excuses, but I'm pretty sure at the end of the day I just overshared some stuff and would just free flow conversation.

Anyhow, can anyone else share insights about meeting people and what is the "just right" amount of communication? Especially if things don't move rapidly?

EDIT: The Meet the Metas thing I mentioned on the first date and she said she preferred it. I prefer it because my wife remains a big part of my wife and if I'm meeting someone I want to have as a polyamorous partner, they have potential to become very important in my life too.