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I've seen this popup among ENM practicers who are non-hierarchal and don't want to use "primary" or "nesting partner."
Am I alone in thinking that this is just a new phrase in hierarchy denial?
I think a new term is needed because of non-hierarchal abuse. Minimal hierarchy is honest but be too easily misconstrued by all parties and also ripe for abuse.
How does everyone else communicate that a partner of 15 years is going to be more stable in their relationship with you than one of 2 months; but that doesn't mean that other partner will be limiting or dictating rules of the new relationship as it progresses?
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