I feel like increasingly people equate the word "triad" with FFM relationships that started with a couple finding another person. I've seen people on this subreddit talk down about triads because it makes them think of unicorn hunting.

But there are innumerable different kinds of triads! I'm currently in two, and I've always loved triad dynamics. Tell me about your nonstereotypical triad structures!

I'll go first: Triad 1: FNM, I'm married to my spouse whose in a queerplatonic relationship with their partner, and I'm in a FWB relationship with that same partner, and the three of us cuddle and kiss when we're together and it's super sweet.

Triad 2: FMF, I started dating my bf in 2020 and introduced him to poly. He started dating his gf last year, and it turns out his gf and I so on the same wavelength it's nuts. She and I are still figuring out what our relationship is, but we have threesomes together and I love our dynamic.

Edit: Everyone in both triads is welcome to date whoever they want, everything is open.