So for those following along with my posts R and A recently had the biggest blow up they’ve had in their relationship thus far. As of last night they some how managed to patch things up.

So before all this when R started dating A I was very jealous, insecure and saw them as a threat. But now after what A did to R I don’t feel that way anymore, it’s evolved into more so anger and bitterness towards them and what they did. I don’t see them as a threat anymore because of how bad they messed things up and almost see them as lesser.

Obviously that’s not exactly healthy either and I’ve told R that in order for my opinion to change of A that they very much need to change their behaviours. I will be polite in every regard that I must but as of right now I’m just super unimpressed.

R tells me it’s sad that A and I don’t like each other and too be honest I have no idea what I did nor have I been told what I could have done for A not to like me aside from them also seeing me as a threat.

Anyways, is this normal? I realize it’s not healthy for myself or R even and that’s sometimes metamours just can’t or won’t get along. Advice and suggestions would be great, open too all comments and as always thank you everyone for your time and help!