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I'm pretty sure we might be a quad in development. I'm taking Barbie on a date next week, and durring our foursome tonight Lake and Jason were super sweet to one another. And we all use love language more openly now too.

It's interesting cause I didn't think about quads/triads like this before. You always hear about the unicorn, or the two couples that got together; not usually a couple that dated separately but then started triads on both sides....

It's interesting too cause in both trios and the quad each connection is different and unique. There is equity but no issue or focus on "evenness" or "equality" in that we are all different and each relationship has it's own wants and needs and has the space to go on whatever journey is desired.

There is a relationship as a group (of 3 and of 4) but it comes out of all of the dyads. So it gets nurturing but it's also not the focus - more like the happy result of all the dyads.

I guess being in a triad or a quad is a lot different than what I thought it was.