Edit: V and S wants to thanks everyone for their input. This is our first poly so we're by no means any expert that this. Obviously we need to work on our relationship and learn more about being polygamous.

We hope everyone enjoyed their weekend and isn't having that bad of a Monday so far!

So we (MFF) have been a triad for almost 2 years now, we're also open but not since covid to be safe. We "lost" some fwb because they have settled down or is somewhat of anti-vaccine. We recently explored our bf being bi curious (took him to a gay masseuse), and he would like to explore more of that. We're all cool with it (we, the gfs were the one that brought it up actually).

At the same time, we're slowly starting to feel... jealousy? We're not sure if that's the right expression just yet. We all have our common hobbies with each other and would do "couple" dates. For example D (bf) and S (gf) likes to go hiking together, V (gf) doesn't she just stays home and chill. Another time is V and D would have a video game night, S isn't that much into it so she just watches or do or own thing. We can keep going but hopefully you get the idea. So every now and then, the person that's "left out" feels that it'd be nice to have a person with them to hang out or do stuff together. We're all adults here and we know how to entertain ourselves. But this feeling has come up for all of us enough to communicate it.

Now all of us have a long history together. V and S have been besties since high school. D was a fwb for about 5 years before our poly. So the trust and the foundation is already built like a skyscraper.

We feel like it'll be a tall order to find a bi male that's sexually compatible with all of us and an ever taller order to find one that's interested in poly.

At this point we're kind of just throwing around ideas and see how we all feel about it. We're open to any insight or ideas from an outside pov. Thanks! 😎😘🤗

Edit; fixed spellings