Our relationship problems have nothing to do with being open. It has nothing to do with seeing other people. Yet she thinks it would be better to close the relationship until things get better for us. I’ve been seeing someone for a little bit and we really connect well. Been on 4 dates and planned another, but now I’ll have to cut it off and potentially start all over again. I don’t know how long it will take to make things right again. Her and I did have an agreement that when we opened the relationship, if we didn’t feel comfortable we could close it, but that was if we have trouble with opening up. It wasn’t meant that if we’re having other problems that we’d close it.

Now she says it’s closed, and anything else I do is considered cheating