Hi so i'm very new to being poly and I see so many happy people on here so I was hoping someone might have advice on overcoming jealousy? my relationship is newly poly because it's what my partner needs but i've never been in a poly/open relationship or ever considered it but now i'm in one and want to make it work so badly because I love my partner dearly. but I don't know how to stop being upset and jealous about them being with other people, knowing they're with another person keeps upsetting me I know it's not healthy to be so jealous and upset I just don't know how to be ok with it. I want to learn how, hell i'd be happy being friends with the other people at some point it's just that right now i'm not ok but I want to be. has anyone felt like this before, does anyone have any advice for dealing with these bad feelings?